Love, Sexuality & Relationship Coach

Christine Borden

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I coach individuals and partners of all genders, orientations, and relationship styles, providing a safe, trauma-informed space for self-discovery and relational growth.  My coaching offers an openness to authentically explore your deepest desires around love, sex and relationships. I bring a non-judgmental, accepting perspective to all relationship types, from dating and marriage to conscious non-monogamy.  My knowledge of relationship beginnings, long-term maintenance, and thoughtful endings is utilized to help you clear away what's blocking you. My goal is to guide you in clearly identifying your unique desires and abilities so you can step into a life of fully thriving.

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Client Base

I am not a mental health or medical practitioner; please refer to these professions for a proper diagnosis and treatment.

I can provide tools and guidance designed to you achieve clarity, acceptance and improvement in areas where physical or metal health causes have been ruled out.

LOVE

  • Dating

  • Life Transitions

  • Self Acceptance

  • Recognizing patterns of attracting wrong partners

  • Consciously choosing self

  • Boundary setting

SEXUALITY

  • Loss of sexual desire

  • Life transitions

  • Erectile performance

  • Self desire and pleasure

  • Improved orgasm

  • Loss of sexual sensation

RELATIONSHIPS

  • Deepen connection to partner

  • Have better (or any) orgasms with partner

  • Clarity and understanding of the relationship

  • Feelings of desire within the relationship

  • Transitions in relationship dynamics

  • Surrender during sex

LADIES

  • Clarity of desires and goals

  • Feelings of worthiness and deserving

  • Creating new relationship to emotions

  • Empowering your truth

  • Exploring and intensifying body sensations

  • Staying present and grounded

GENTLEMEN

  • Clarity of desires and goals

  • Intensify or desensitize body sensations

  • Explore deeper emotional connections

  • Creating new relationships to emotions

  • Work with sexual energy and expansion

  • Improve knowledge of sexual pleasure

COUPLES

  • Create deeper emotional connections

  • Work with sexual energy and expansion

  • Create new relationship to emotions

  • Explore sexual desires within the relationship

  • Process narrative or stories impacting relationship

  • Recognize old patterns preventing the relationship from thriving

  • DISCOVERY SESSION

    Unlock Your Potential: Schedule Your Free Discovery Session

    Let's dedicate one hour to exploring your future. Book your complimentary, no-obligation Discovery Session and start charting your path to success.

    During this call, we will:

    Pinpoint your real goals for a coaching relationship.

    Discuss the coaching process and answer your questions.

    Mutually determine if my coaching style aligns with your needs.

    Detail exactly what moving forward looks like, should we decide it's a "yes."

    This is the crucial first step to achieving what you truly want.

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    EXPLORATION

    Discover a transformative six-week session designed to delve deeply into your desires in sex, love, and relationships. This immersive experience offers a safe, supportive environment to explore your unique needs, boundaries, and aspirations. Over the course of six weeks, you will engage in guided exercises, reflective practices, and expert-led discussions that help you:

    Identify and articulate what you truly want and need in intimate connections

    Overcome internal blocks and limiting beliefs around desire

    Enhance communication skills for expressing wants and boundaries clearly

    Build confidence in pursuing fulfilling, authentic relationships

    Cultivate greater self-awareness and emotional intimacy

    Develop practical strategies for nurturing passion and connection

    Whether you seek to deepen your current relationship, reignite passion, or navigate new romantic possibilities, this session provides the clarity and tools essential for meaningful growth. Join us to claim the desire that leads to richer, more satisfying love and sexual experiences.

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    DESIRE ADVENTURE - INDIVIDUAL

    The DESIRE ADVENTURE Coaching Program is a highly individualized, 12-Week program in which you will receive the skilled guidance, support and accountability you need to unlock your full potential and create the change you truly desire. Together, we’ll explore your unique blueprint, goals, and desires, creating safety and acceptance so that intimacy and connection can flourish in a way that feels natural, grounded, and alive.

    Over the course of twelve weeks, you will engage in guided exercises, reflective practices, and expert-led discussions that help you:

    Identify and articulate what you truly want and need in intimate connections

    Overcome internal blocks and limiting beliefs around desire

    Enhance communication skills for expressing wants and boundaries clearly

    Build confidence in pursuing fulfilling, authentic relationships

    Cultivate greater self-awareness and emotional intimacy

    Develop practical strategies for nurturing passion and connection

    Whether you seek to deepen your current relationship, reignite passion, or navigate new romantic possibilities, this session provides the clarity and tools essential for meaningful growth. Join us to claim the desire that leads to richer, more satisfying love and sexual experiences.

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    DESIRE ADVENTURE - COUPLES

    The DESIRE ADVENTURE Coaching Program is a highly individualized, 6-Week program designed for partners seeking to unlock the full potential of their relationship and create the profound, lasting change they truly desire together.

    You will receive skilled guidance, support, and accountability to transform your current dynamic. We will explore your unique shared blueprint, relationship goals, and mutual desires, creating safety and acceptance so that intimacy and connection can flourish in a way that feels natural, grounded, and intensely alive for both of you.

    Over the course of twelve weeks, you will engage in guided exercises, shared reflective practices, and expert-led discussions that help your partnership:

    Identify and articulate shared wants and needs in your intimate connection and life together.

    Overcome internal and relational blocks and limiting beliefs around mutual desire, connection, and conflict.

    Enhance communication skills for expressing desires, boundaries, and appreciation clearly and safely to one another.

    Build confidence in pursuing a fulfilling, resilient, and authentically passionate partnership.

    Cultivate greater mutual self-awareness and deepen your emotional intimacy as a team.

    Develop practical, sustainable strategies for nurturing long-term passion, play, and emotional connection.

    Whether you seek to deepen an existing bond, reignite passion and excitement, or navigate a period of growth and transition, this program provides the clarity and collaborative tools essential for meaningful transformation.

    Join us to claim the shared desire that leads to a richer, more satisfying, and exquisitely connected life and love experience.

  • Love Magnet

    🧲 The "Love Magnet" 4-Session Coaching Package

    The "Love Magnet" package is a focused, four-session journey designed to transform your mindset from wishing for love to powerfully attracting the fulfilling relationship you desire.

    We don't chase love; we become magnetic to it.

    SessionFocusKey Outcome

    Session 1: The Blueprint & Blocks Define your ideal love and identify the hidden fears stopping it.

    Session 2: The Inner Shift Upgrade your self-worth and establish rock-solid boundaries.

    Session 3: Energetic Alignment Create a confident, intentional strategy for showing up and receiving love.

    Session 4: Integration & Momentum Build a long-term plan to sustain your magnetism and embrace your future.

    What You Get:

    4 x 60-Minute Private 1:1 Coaching Sessions

    Custom Worksheets and exercises for immediate application.

    Action Plan for continued success after the package ends.

    Ready to activate your inner magnet? Let's get started!

  • Dating Adventure

    Length: A 6 session program for Single Men and Women 40+ Who Are Resistant to Dating 

    If you're single and the thought of getting back into the dating world feels overwhelming, you are not alone. The landscape has changed, and it's completely normal to feel lost.

    The DATING ADVENTURE Program provides the guidance, support, and accountability you need to unlock your full potential. Together, we'll create safety and acceptance so that intimacy and connection can flourish in a way that feels natural, grounded, and alive.

    In 6 Focused Sessions, We Will:

    Release the Past: Acknowledge your past relationship and define who you are as a confident, desirable single person now.

    Self-Love & Pleasure: Learn to date from a place of Self-Love and Pleasure. This mindset heals deep fears and makes the entire dating process enjoyable.

    End Unhealthy Patterns: Identify and work through the resistance that blocks you from finding your ideal partner, replacing old habits with sustainable, successful actions.

    Own Your Value and Worth: Learn how to be authentically seen and connect with others who truly appreciate your value and worth.

    Modern Strategy: Master the updated rules of modern dating, including tech, communication, and setting expectations.

    Build Your Roadmap: Develop a sustainable plan for strong boundaries and recognizing red flags, allowing you to date consistently without burnout.

    Life coaching is an investment of your time, energy and money. Success depends upon you showing up to your investment. Do the work, and you will experience real, and lasting transformation.